Listening to Maria’s show (Jared’s slot) on WGMD this morning I was fascinated listening to a couple of the callers regarding the gay issue she invoked. One offered the old saw, referring to Biblical ‘law‘. Another implied we were not bad, just “confusedâ€. ??? Both, frankly, were more than a little patronizing…not to mention (dare I say it?) wrong. Not in their own, personal beliefs, let me hasten to add, but in putting forth that they are ‘right’.
Wouldn’t logic tell you that if we are to be punished because of ONE aspect of the manner in which we live then so will all of us be so punished? Any hopes of anyone ‘getting to heaven’ while others may be excluded or punished, you might as well hang up because I don’t doubt for a second there’s not a one of us, gay/straight, white/red/blue, who has lived a life according to every word, each law adhered to in that book without falter….or exception. What makes anyone deny…or believe…that out of all the two testaments, hundreds of pages and a million verses less than ten (10) may refer to same-sex behavior in any way, shape or form. Based on that, we are unworthy, reviled and can expect retribution? Hmmm…so, I have to wonder about the majority of the straight society who, besides other, lesser, biblical laws they may take so lightly and break, there are these…….
DEUTERONOMY 22:13-21
If it is discovered that a bride is not a virgin, the Bible demands that she be executed by stoning immediately.
DEUTERONOMY 22:22
If a married person has sex with someone else’s husband or wife, the Bible commands that both adulterers be stoned to death.
MARK 10:1-12
Divorce is strictly forbidden in both Testaments, as is remarriage of anyone who has been divorced.
LEVITICUS 18:19
The Bible forbids a married couple from having sexual intercourse during a woman’s period. If they disobey, both shall be executed.
MARK 12:18-27
If a man dies childless, his widow is ordered by biblical law to have intercourse with each of his brothers in turn until she bears her deceased husband a male heir.
DEUTERONOMY 25:11-12
If a man gets into a fight with another man and his wife seeks to rescue her husband by grabbing the enemy’s genitals, her hand shall be cut off and no pity shall be shown her.
http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible-gay-christian
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And then there is the “confusionâ€. Myself, I spent forty years being ‘confused’, if you like, before I was blessed enough to become unconfused. Guess which life was the more confusing, guilt-creating or felt very much out of synch and dishonest? If you haven’t lived both I’m afraid I’d have to say you don’t know what confused is.
But, again, these are all bedroom-related arguments and I hate to repeat myself but what does the general revulsion, preaching and psycho-babble have to do with whether or not homosexuals should be allowed to marry or, at least, enjoy a legal union of some sort? It’s not for the bedroom activities…they will continue regardless, just as heterosexual will (despite what the above quoted verses say). Make two lists but exclude the bedroom. What do we do different from you? We work, pay taxes, take care of chores, bills. We care for the person with whom we share our life, in exactly the same fashion, worry how he/she will manage upon our demise or serious illness/injury, how we care for him/her should old age and infirmity be unkind. You can make much better provision for most of those eventualities than we can…at best, we can leave wills or health initiatives we can only hope will be honored by family members who…as it often happens…feels as the callers do, this morning. Many times, not.
We are not asking or seeking legality to intimacy…that’s no more necessary for us than two sixteen year olds in the back seat of a car or a married spouse having an affair. It may or may not be legal but for some reason merits a degree of “Oh…well!†The legality we seek…or at least many of us do…is when we share every other aspect of our lives there will be a legal protection against those who do not agree with, or simply fear, not HOW we live but with whom.