Jud Bennett writes about redemption:
Dear Friends,
Something good must be in the Delaware drinking water, other then the polluting, carcinogenic chemicals I usually complain about. This amazing year of political upheaval, fanatical diatribes, and vitriolic sensationalism has turned remarkably into a series of positive notes-renewing my faith in humanity. Perhaps “the Lord does indeed work in mysterious ways!”
Perception is reality and can only be defined by one’s own universe. What we feel, what we see, and what we ultimately learn are indicative facets of our personalities and the sum total of our existence.  Wil Rogers, one of our country’s most provocative Americans made many quotable statements: The most famous quote was : “I never met a man I didn’t like”, and another one I personally hang on to is ”that most good judgment comes from previous bad judgment.”
To clarify where I’m heading with this dissertation and where I intend to end up, I’ll mention briefly some personal incidents, some remarkable communications, and some objective observations. At this point you must be quite confused, so here it goes.
In the 2004 election, I ran for Sussex County Council. With 17,500 people voting, I lost by 3 votes. Hard to believe and when it’s that close, every little thing becomes a factor. One factor that bothered me the most which I perceived as extremely detrimental and contributed significantly to my loss were the actions of the infamous Joe Connor. This successful real estate agent and Democrat political activist, conducted a personal diatribe against me overtly and covertly that was second to none. His steady drumbeat of negativity concerning my ancient, past business failures and former risqué life style were definitely effective. Interestingly, after several appearances on WGMD radio and some later discussions with Joe, he actually apologized to me, and said he had made a huge mistake. He asked for my forgiveness. Remarkably, I was able to get past my hatred for the man and I actually now like the guy. To be able to forgive Joe Connor and to no longer hate him was an interesting mental adjustment. I actually felt a relief of sorts- a spiritual sense of well being.
During the recent John Atkins saga, nobody was more accusing and more caustic towards John Atkins, with all his self inflicted troubles, than Joe Connor. There was an almost, maniacal obsession by Joe Connor to air publicly every negative aspect of the former Representative’s supposed high crimes and misdemeanors. I had actually thought that Connor had been cured of his bent towards the political malignment of certain individuals, but that was not yet the case.Â
As was reported on the front page of the local section of the News Journal and broadcasted on WGMD radio- recently, Joe Connor filed bankruptcy, was charged with forgery and theft, and is soon to be arrested and arraigned for DUI, fleeing the police, first degree reckless endangerment, and a variety of other traffic offences. With broken bones and on a suicide watch in a Salisbury, Md hospital lies a very humiliated and deflated Joe Connor. Amazingly, the first person to visit him was former Representative John Atkins. Again forgiveness has prevailed and John Atkins is free of the weight of hatred and the need for revenge. The ultimate goodness from all of this is that I believe Joe Connor will now be freed of his affliction, and even though he has hard times ahead of him, including potential incarceration, I know he will be healed by the spiritual friendship offered by those who he himself has injured.
Through the milk of human kindness indeed comes redemption. I cannot help believing that this redemption must come from God. I wish Joe Connor well and I believe with continued help from his friends and lasting forgiveness from his former enemies, we will all be whole again. I have hope. These are simply some musings from Sussex County’s most imperfect human being.
Simcerely yours,
Judson Bennett-Coastal Conservative Network